Personal Statement

I enjoy helping people to find balance in their life and in their relationship with food. I believe that my job is work myself out of a job by helping people to be able to walk through life without me. We all come to a point in our lives where we might feel out of balance and the pieces of our lives just don't seem to fit together. I will come alongside you and help you develop a plan of how to put the pieces back together to form a balanced and harmonious picture.

One of my favorite types of clients to work with are couples. These can be married couples or couples who are dating. We work to identify what is working in the relationship and what is not. One of the key basic principles of couples therapy is that people need to arrive at some radical acceptance that they are not in a relationship with themselves, the other person is not going to think, feel, act, or believe like them. Their partners are not a miniature or mirrored versions of themselves.

Often times parents will bring their children in for counseling as a complete family. Whatever the situation is I love working with families and working on what each family member's role is. Family Therapy and Family Counseling can be the entire family coming in because there are a lot of conflicts going on. Perhaps the whole family is just trying to prepare for aging parents, grandparents, kids leaving for college, or whatever the struggle may be.

Client Focus (Age)

  • Preteens/Tweens (11 to 13)
  • Adolescents/Teenagers (14 to 19)
  • Adults
  • Elders (65+)

Therapy Specialties

  • Addiction
  • Anorexia
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Eating Disorders
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Coaching
  • Obesity
  • Panic Attacks
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Weight Loss
  • Women's Issues

Treatment Orientation

  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Integration of different therapy models
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Systems Theory/Therapy

Modality

  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Group

Accepted Insurance Plans

  • Tricare
  • Triwest

Years in Practice

20+ years

Services Fee

  • Therapy Session

Payments Accepted

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Licenses

License Name License State Year
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) MFC41893 CA 2005

Certifications

Name Year
Board Certified Professional Counselor (BCPC) 2008

Associations

Name Duration
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) 2004-Present

Education

School Degree Major Year
California Lutheran University MSMarital and Family Therapy2002
California Lutheran University MSClinical Psychology1998
State University of New York at Buffalo BSDietetics and Food Systems Management1981

Languages

  • English

Office Address


Lois Zsarnay LMFT, BCPC, RD

4411 Dupont Court, Suite 120

Ventura, California 93003

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