Personal Statement

Hi. I’m Garrett Coan. I’m a teacher and healer, helping people attain happy and loving relationships. I see myself as a catalyst for change, facilitating new patterns of communication and behavior within relationships that are “stuck”. The most uplifting and inspiring aspect of my work is seeing a couple transform their relationship from one of sadness, anger, distrust and disconnection to one of security, positivity, warmth and love.

When you discover that your partner has cheated on you, you’re initial reaction is one of shock, anger and sadness. You will likely feel betrayed and rejected. Your feelings of trust, safety and security within the relationship become greatly diminished.

Discovery of infidelity triggers shock and anger which then leads to a powerful sense of betrayal, rejection and shame. I will validate and support both of you, helping you process and work through feelings of hurt, anger, sadness and guilt. In my marriage counseling NJ practice, I help the couple identify and fix the flaws in their relationship that led to the affair.