Personal Statement

Most of us have strategies for coping with stressful emotions and situation while trying not to let emotions get the better of us. Sometimes these old ways of coping work for awhile, then the old feelings come back. We vow to "try harder"... Short term fixes that allow us to avoid or numb our emotions may temporarily alleviate emotional suffering but eventually the overwhelming unpleasant emotions are back; we feel anxious, depressed, ashamed, angry. If you feel trapped in the struggle to manage and control your emotions that arise from the experiences of everyday living, work stressors and relationships I can help you.

I believe therapy is most effective when it's flexible and demystified so you can expect me to be transparent about my ideas and approach. I integrate complementary, evidence-based techniques including CBT to offer a personalized approach tailored to your goals for treatment. I will help you learn new skills to clarify and act upon your core values, practice mindfulness and acceptance, detach from negative control strategies, self-sooth, improve interpersonal skills and gradually face strong unpleasant emotions.

Finding a therapist can be a daunting process and a huge leap of faith. Congratulations on taking the first steps toward living your fullest life as your authentic self. I look forward to working with you.

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Client Focus (Age)

  • Adults
  • Elders (65+)

Therapy Specialties

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Borderline Personality
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • LGBTQ Issues
  • Panic Attacks
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD

Treatment Orientation

  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Collaborative Problem Solving
  • Emotion Focused Therapy
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Humanistic
  • Motivational Interviewing

Modality

  • Individuals
  • Couples

Accepted Insurance Plans

  • Premera

Years in Practice

8 years

Services Fee

  • Therapy Session $150

Payments Accepted

American Express, Cash, Check, Mastercard, Visa

Licenses

License Name License State Year
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) LH60645998 WA 2019

Education

School Degree Major Year
Regis University MACounseling Psychology2004

Languages

  • English

Office Address


Paul Heiman MA LMHC

3302 Fuhrman Ave E, Suite 111

Seattle, Washington 98102

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