Personal Statement

I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist & Registered Addiction Specialist in Marin County, California. I am not a therapist that simply reflects back to you on how your week went and asks "how did that make you feel." I am very active and solution-oriented in my sessions. As a therapist, I bring my education, life experience & clinical training to help guide our work. With a blend of experience, understanding, intuition, & humor & with a willingness to suspend judgment, think creatively, & remain truly engaged to develop a different perspective learning new skills that move you toward creating the life you want.

Therapy can be hard work & takes courage. People that come to me for help are unique and different from one another. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches to meet the specific needs & expressed desires of each individual, couple, and family, so they may successfully attain their short-term goals and long-range solutions

In addition to my clinical degree, I am a trained Addiction Specialist & Certified Relapse Prevention Therapist. People struggling with substance abuse or dependence are often self-medicating their depression, anxiety, and trauma. Addressing the underlying causes that are the contributing factors to substance abuse or dependence is a crucial piece of treatment. I offer a Harm Reduction or abstinent only treatment.

No matter how well things are going in your life, you may sometimes wonder what stops you from achieving more. Your life may be a series of painful triggers stressors, which may lead to increased anxiety, depression, & traumatic responses.

Psychotherapy can be your gateway to a life filled with confidence, happiness, serenity, & balance. To strengthen & grow your Observing Ego, which allows you to truly know who you are, the impact you have on others, and in turn how others impact you. I work with adults, couples, teens, & families to help address life’s challenges & live a more joyful and satisfying life.

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Client Focus (Age)

  • Preteens/Tweens (11 to 13)
  • Adolescents/Teenagers (14 to 19)
  • Adults
  • Elders (65+)

Therapy Specialties

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Life Coaching
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD

Treatment Orientation

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness Based Approaches
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Relapse Prevention
  • Trauma Focused
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy (TF-CBT)

Modality

  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Family
  • Group

Years in Practice

10+ years

Services Fee

  • Therapy Session $200-$270

Payments Accepted

Cash, Check, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Licenses

License Name License State Year
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) 51868 CA 2011

Certifications

Name Year
Registered Addiction Specialist (RAS) 2008

Associations

Name Duration
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT) 2007-Present

Education

School Degree Major Year
UC Berkeley MSDrug and Alcohol Studies2009
Dominican University MSClinical Psychology2008
Oswego State University BSEducation1981

Office Address


Thom Kessler, MS, LMFT, RAS

1036 Sir Francis Drake Boulevard

Kentfield, California 94904

Hours Of Operation

Monday Closed
Tuesday 10:00AM-8:00PM
Wednesday 9:00AM-7:00PM
Thursday 10:00AM-7:00PM
Friday 10:00AM-7:00PM
Saturday 9:00AM-6:00PM
Sunday Closed
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