Personal Statement

Are you an adult, facing a midlife crisis wondering where things began to go wrong, or perhaps you are contemplating divorce after suddenly waking up to the fact that you have been sleepwalking through your life for the past few years? Have you lost a sense of meaning in your life or connection to the person you thought you were until everything started to go wrong?

You may have tried rekindling the relationship fires by doing couple’s therapy or integrating a new communication technique that backfired, leaving you and your mate feeling even more hopeless and distant.  Or maybe you’ve walked the wild side and considered or acted out in an affair, hoping something inside of you would wake up and respond to the danger you were putting yourself in as a kind of shock therapy.

The reason none of this works is that midlife problems don’t usually have a quick fix like buying a new sports car, or engaging in a steamy affair. The “second half of life” is a call to dive in to that part of you that has been asleep waiting for you to wake up to the emptiness you are feeling.

This journey requires you to suffer enough so that you turn around and say, “What about me?” so that you actually reach for a way out.

The turn around begins when you ask the “big” questions, in search of the Truth. This inquiry is your passage into the depths of what you are truly made of to reach beyond your personality into the unknown:

My work is to guide you through the dark into freedom.