Personal Statement

Has your partner ever told you "I love you, but I'm not in love with you"? Hopefully, your marriage has not gotten to that point, but if it has, your marriage is at serious risk. If you are concerned about a growing emotional distance in your relationship, I recommend you do something about before it is too late. You do deserve to have the warmth, connection and love you desire in your marriage. I've worked with hundreds of couples, helping them to improve, repair and restore their marriage.

One of the approaches I use is to repair the damage to the marriage. And then, I help the couple to eventually learn how to repair things, on their own. Now, this does take some work. Because it takes work, it helps if both spouses are willing to make some changes. But many couples come in, not expecting to change, or blaming their partner for everything. And still, change happens and couples fall back in love, and feel close to their partner, again.

I worked out an approach that helps couples learn how to express their needs in a better way. And they could learn how to understand their partners needs in a more effective way. This was much different from what they had been doing previously.