Anxiety Disorders And Anxiety Attacks

Published on September 14th, 2020

Updated on May 31st, 2022

What You Can Do When You Are Blindsided By Anxiety

Anxiety is something we feel when something unexpected, unpleasant, uncomfortable, or unpredictable is happening or about to happen. The uncertainty of an outcome, or simply the idea of something happening or not happening, can affect us so much that our bodies and minds react through visible and palpable symptoms.

Anxiety can affect a person so strongly that they feel like they are in danger of something harmful happening. It causes several uncomfortable symptoms, like:

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What Is An Anxiety Disorder?

Anxiety is something everyone experiences, but there are people who chronically experience symptoms. When anxiety affects a person’s ability to cope with their day-to-day, it may mean they are suffering from an anxiety disorder.

Many people with anxiety disorders do not know what they are experiencing is anxiety. Sometimes they even believe that it is a typical reaction that everyone experiences, which is not always the case.

Everyone will experience anxiety at some point in their life. It is an emotion that can be triggered by several factors. Sometimes it will be triggered by recognizable situations and sometimes it will be triggered by circumstances that are more difficult to identify and understand. To be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder implies that the anxiety that is experienced is:

Common Causes Of Anxiety Disorders

Everyone will have their own triggers for stress and anxiety. Some people will have unique stressors that will trigger different types of anxiety. Different factors can cause an anxiety disorder, which is a chronic condition of anxiety.

Common factors that may cause an anxiety disorder include:

Heredity And Family History

If you have an immediate family member with chronic or excessive anxiety, you are at high risk of also experiencing heightened anxiety. This could be due to genes or learning modeled anxious behavior from others during upbringing. It is possible to be genetically predisposed to anxiety.


Change can be scary for people. When a person is exposed to significant change, they can feel vulnerable. Having to adjust to significant changes can cause a person to experience heightened anxiety. Changes that can cause anxiety include:


Living, working, or attending school in a chaotic, volatile, or unhealthy environment can cause anxiety. People in an unhealthy or chaotic environment feel unsafe. This unsafe feeling causes people to feel insecure and on edge. Prolonged exposure to a stressful environment can cause chronic anxiety. This chronic anxiety caused by your environment can carry over to other areas of your life.

Types Of Anxiety

There are many different types of anxiety disorders that a person may suffer from. Each disorder may have unique symptoms, causes, and methods of treatment. They also typically have thought and behavior patterns in common with one another.

Different types of anxiety disorders include:

What Is An Anxiety Attack?

What Is An Anxiety Attack?

Having an anxiety attack (panic attack) is a scary experience. It causes uncomfortable symptoms that can be scary and upsetting. It is not uncommon for a person who is having an anxiety attack to not understand what is happening to them. Since an anxiety attack has physical symptoms, people can confuse it for a medical emergency.

An anxiety attack can be triggered by something known or can happen unexpectedly. It occurs as a result of being overwhelmed with anxiety. Sometimes, that anxiety can seemingly come out of nowhere. It is not uncommon for a person to have an anxiety attack and not know what is causing the panic or anxiety.

Anxiety attacks are commonly seen with anxiety disorders and mood disorders. They can be a symptom of different disorders as well. Having anxiety attacks may be the result of panic disorder, but may also be a symptom of other disorders and mental health issues.

Symptoms Of An Anxiety Attack

An anxiety attack causes an affected person to feel many distressing sensations. During a severe anxiety attack, you may feel like you are dying or experiencing a medical emergency. These sensations are scary and typically last for about 10 minutes. Symptoms can be confused with a medical emergency because of how intense they can feel, but new or troubling sensations should be taken seriously and addressed by a medical professional.

Symptoms of an anxiety attack include:

How Anxiety Is Treated

It is important to seek therapy for anxiety disorders. Therapy helps a person learn how to cope with their symptoms. If an anxiety disorder is not addressed it could lead to consequences. Some consequences include:

Anxiety can cause muscle tension, headaches, and hypertension. It can also affect the immune system, causing someone who is sick to have a hard time getting better.

Fortunately, there are therapeutic approaches that can help a person learn to manage anxiety. Cognitive and behavioral therapies are particularly effective in reducing negative self-talk. This lessens the intensity of symptoms and helps the affected person stay in control of their thoughts and emotions.

The following forms of therapy are helpful for anxiety:

What You Can Do When You Are Blindsided By Anxiety

What You Can Do When You Are Blindsided By Anxiety

The dreaded feeling of anxiety can blast into your body when you least expect it. It is a feeling many anxiety sufferers know all too well. It may even cause some anxiety responses in your body to even think about being blindsided by anxiety or an anxiety attack. The experience of anxiety may cause:

Anxiety can be managed in the moment, which can help to prevent an anxiety attack. Here are some ways to manage that anxiety/panic when it hits you out of nowhere:


When the feelings of anxiety start to spike, stop whatever you are doing and breathe. In most situations, we can stop and take a moment to care for our needs by either going to the restroom, pausing for a break, or simply stating that a break is needed. And yes, we have all heard to take deep breaths when feeling anxious and it’s almost cliché at this point. However, biologically speaking, oxygen helps to reduce the stress hormones in your body, which helps to calm your anxiety.

2. Name It

Name what you are feeling. Say out loud or in your mind, I feel anxious. Naming your feeling helps to give you awareness of the feeling. It can also help to normalize the experience in your mind and body.

Example: This is anxiety, I am not losing my mind. It is not in control if I do not allow it, and it will pass.

3. Grounding

Grounding is a strategy used to remind your body that you are connected to the earth and you are present in this moment. Some people find sitting and noticing the feeling of the chair beneath them to be helpful, while others like to do some body squats or take a walk and notice the pressure of each step under the feet. The goal of grounding is to feel your body connected to the ground, chair, couch, etc., and notice that connection through the pressure and sensations in your body.

4. Orient To The Space

Orienting is the act of finding your positioning within the space. Orienting helps the brain to scan the environment for possible threats. This helps to calm anxiety as it shows you that there is no threat (assuming there is no actual threat).

Example: To orient to the space, you will look around the room, slowly scanning and noticing the colors, textures, lights, interesting things, likes, dislikes, etc. You can name them in your mind or say them out loud: “I see a lamp, I like the blue color of the wall, the painting has an interesting texture.” Do this a few times, slowly.

5. Repeat A Saying/Mantra

It helps to have a mantra prepared and practiced before your anxiety flares. Prepare a saying that you will repeat in your mind when anxiety starts. The sayings could be “I am safe,” “this will pass soon” or another saying that helps you focus your mind. Repeating the saying can help to reduce or stop circulating thoughts. Repeat the saying at a slow, steady pace in your mind or out loud.

6. Ride The Wave

Riding the wave is a Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) term used to describe the act of allowing emotions to come and go like ocean waves. Allowing the sensations and emotions to be present (without judging yourself) can help your body to overcome the anxious response. Notice the sensations and emotions in your body and allow them to be present and then feel them wash away.

7. Body Pressure

Body squeezes, weighted objects or a hug from a safe, known person are strategies that could help to reduce anxiety. The pressure may help you contain the feelings and sensations and feel the boundary of the body. When the body pressure is applied, focus on the area with the most pressure or the area of the body calling for the most attention.

Note: The pressure should be changed if it is uncomfortable or feels like it is too much, painful, or constricting. Pressure needs may change as the emotions and sensations process and move in the body.

8. Distract Yourself

Distraction is especially useful if you do not have a lot of time and the pressure of moving on with a task or event is causing more distress. Distraction can come in the form of conversation with another person, watching a video, reading a book, doing push-ups, or any other activity that requires your attention to be in the space around you.

9. Seek Support

If a trusted person is near tell them what is happening to you. Having a trusted person there to support you through the anxiety or anxiety attack can help you to feel safe and reduce the feeling of being alone. The person may also be able to advocate for you to take a break, step outside or remind you to breathe deeply.

It is also a good idea to seek professional support if anxiety continues to be an area of concern or causes disruptions in your life.

10. Try Again

Sometimes, all of the techniques in the world just do not help the anxiety move on through your body. Remember, you are human. Sometimes, you may need to leave a situation and try again another time.

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